Dating a divorced older man with kids
After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had:1. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love. Protect your own heart Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance.
Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.
SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back.
Allow your woman to When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Fill her soul everyday…learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. To carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul.Always see the best in her Focus only on what you love. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged.If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love.Don’t worry about money Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.19. Forgive immediately..focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back.